Over the years I’ve made friends but also lost friends. Friends from school from whom we eventually go our separate ways. Friends from work who quit and you never see them again. Friends of friends whom you weren’t too close to. Friends who you got into a fight with and never forgave each other. Friends who got separated over time. Changing school, work place and city also contributes to the loss. It’s never easy but it’s also a good reminder of who your true friends really are. Some have a lot, some not. I count myself in the latter.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my me-time (maybe a little too much !) and time spent with my boyfriend ! But over time, I’ve come to realize that I’ve also lost friendships because I was not cultivating them. I mean, it goes both ways, relationships is a game played by two. But I know I definitely did not do my part to keep them alive. Those lost friendships saddens me more than any other lost one. Because those, I could have saved them if I would I have put the time and energy into them. So to all of you, who were once friends but are now simply Facebook acquaintances, I am truly deeply sorry.

The silver lining, at least, is that now I know I need to be a better friend and to be an even better one to those beautiful girls and boys I have the chance to call friends, to never loose a precious soul again. Distance will most likely always come into the picture. But if you work on them, true friendships can defy time and distances and pretty much anything else !!

On a fashion note, remember when I said I had few looks from VIPShop to share, well here’s yet another one ! One that I particularly like as it’s simple, effortless yet chic ! And in all honesty, it’s all about that VIPShop top ! That back cleavage does all the work ! Shop it here to look lavish at your next party ! Or more styles here ! And remember to use my promo code Julia689 to get $5 off on your order over $50 ! XOXO ♥






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  • alex dainel

    Your style it was so attracting..

    • juliafashionista

      Thanks Alex ! :)

  • sam collin

    SUPER SUPER SUPER you are a great model!!

    • juliafashionista

      Aww Thanks Sam ! Means a lot !